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Ob Sie es zugeben oder nicht, Mädchen sind jetzt sehr realistisch. Unter dem Einfluss dieses materiellen Zeitalters müssen Männer bestimmte materielle Bedingungen, Autos, Häuser oder Ablagerungen haben, selbst wenn sie im wirklichen Leben einen Mann und eine Frau heiraten wollen. Es wird sogar gesagt, dass Männer ohne Geld keine Liebe verdienen. Es ist unfair und das Thema ist global. Was ist, wenn Sie keine Kaution, kein Auto oder kein Haus haben?
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2020.09.22 02:25 Just_Leading3691 Are We Heading Towards A DB?

My wife was very sexually active before we met. Lots of evidence around her house, explicit pics in many photo albums, stories about her previous relationships, huge lingerie collection, and over 40 partners before me. From the very beginning, sex was a little off. For example, she wouldn’t make eye contact, very little interaction, reciprocation, very little touch from her, shallow kissing, no foreplay. She would quickly grind herself into a pretty wild orgasm then crash-exhausted. It was just sex, never intimate love making. It was fun at first, but as we fell in-love, I desired more intimacy, less quicky sport sex. She would only initiate if she’s had something to drink. I confronted her about this before we got married, and she improved somewhat. She still lacks intimacy and passion. She also has a bad habit of making sexual innuendos, (“take me home and fuck me”) then never following through. Just falls asleep instantly. She seems to be only interested in sex for the orgasm, not particularly for the intimate connection. She’s always in a hurry. She also prefers sex in the morning only. Never at night. Many special nights have gone sexless (valentines, very luxurious date nights, birthdays, anniversaries, tropical island nights, birthdays, EVEN DURING OUR HONEYMOON!). She would make up for it in the morning and I learned to adapt. I figured, she’s just not a night person.
Currently, I have to stay on her to keep up the intimacy and affection. To reciprocate and initiate all forms of non sexual affection. She loves to receive it but, never initiates and barely reciprocates. Night sex is pretty much completely gone now although she continues to make innuendos during the day then not follow through. I’ve told her to stop this, it’s frustrating and irritating. Then, she denies making said innuendos. She has never once worn any of her vast lingerie collection with me. She never joins me in the shower like she loved to do with her Ex. She looks very uncomfortable when I try and join her. No candles. No romance. Just either vigorous quickies that only serve to get her off as quickly as possible or, she just lays there like a dead fish. That’s all she’s into with me. Little eye contact, no touching, no caressing, very shallow kissing-if any, only one position, and rushed. No spontaneity. No deep intimate love making. She makes mechanical corrections when confronted but, it seems fake, strained and rehearsed. It’s gotten to the point where the sex seems progressively more obligatory. A chore on a check off list. Sometimes I’ll refrain from sex for two weeks and she gets crazy horny. Then, after she’s quickly climaxed, she’s over it. She seems to simply regard sex as a means to an end, a quick meaningless thrill and to keep me happy and her life secure. I don’t feel desired. I feel like a vibrator and a porno could suffice for her. She also seems to have all the symptoms of sexual abuse and has eluded to that but won’t talk about it. I feel that on this current trajectory, we’ll be in a DB situation soon.
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2020.09.18 16:47 BuckRowdy [Update] The rise and fall and the depths of depravity of pedophile Jared Fogle from Subway.

This is an updated and edited version of a post I originally submitted at /redditcrimecommunity. It's been updated with the latest info.
I used to be kind of obsessed with the idea of Jared from Subway. He always seemed like nothing more than wallpaper in a commercial, a guy whose job amounted to holding up a comically giant pair of pants for seconds at a time in commercials. How much do you think they paid that guy to do that?
I used to search to see if I could find out Jared's salary or his net worth because to me it seemed like he had the easiest job in the world. Just stand there and smile, hold up the giant pants, shake a few kids hands at store openings and other corporate promotional events; essentially play the character of Jared from the Subway commercials.
The Midwestern everyman who once weighed over 425 pounds and lost it all by eating at Subway every day. Of course the fine print at the bottom of the screen gave the wider context to his weight loss routine, but there was a much wider, much darker context to Jared's story that would only be revealed years later.
Jared started working for Subway in 2000. By 2005 they had stopped featuring him in commercials and their sales declined by 10%. They quickly reinstated him and he was a fixture ever since.
It is true that Jared did lose the weight, and he did do it in part by eating at Subway.
At this point it would be reasonable to ask how did he get the money as a college student to eat all his meals at Subway?
Because he was running a porn video rental business out of his apartment at the time and had an extensive collection. You've got to remember that this was in an era where media of all types was more difficult to obtain. You didn't have everything at your fingertips back then.
Subway opened up on the ground floor and Jared was lazy so he started eating all his meals there.
The rest of Jared's story is marketing mythology. A friend wrote an article in the student newspaper that got published in Men's Health which caught the eye of Subway's marketing department. Jared started working for Subway in 2000 and up until about 2007 it appeared to be a marketing master stroke. That's when the reports started trickling out. In 2007, TMZ published the story about the porn rental business.
We'd learn later that as early as 2008, Subway had received serious reports about Jared from a franchisee in Florida that Jared had befriended at a few store openings. Cindy Mills, the franchisee said:
"He would just tell me he really liked them young," she says. Fogle and Mills had a sexual relationship, which lead Fogle to disclose disturbing details of his criminal activity in lewd text messages.
Mills says she tried to blow the whistle by phoning ad executive Jeff Moody — then CEO of the Subway Franchisee Advertising Fund Trust (SFAFT) — after Fogle had told her that he had sex both in Thailand and the US with child prostitutes between the ages of 9 and 16 years old. According to Mills, Moody stopped her mid-conversation and said, "Don't worry, he has met someone. She is a teacher and he seems to love her very much, and we think she will help keep him grounded." Mills also claims she spoke with two more SFAFT execs after Moody, but ran into more dead ends.
Jared was up to no good for years, but his world really started to crumble in 2015 with the arrest of Russell Taylor. Taylor was Jared's partner in his non-profit charity and he was just as bad as Jared if not worse.
Russell Taylor, the former director of Fogle's anti-childhood obesity foundation, was arrested in April [of 2015] on three counts of possession of child pornography, three counts of child exploitation, and three counts of voyeurism.
Taylor had gotten in trouble for texting a woman a picture of bestiality and suggesting such between the two of them. It's a sick thing to think about, but that's just what Jared and Russell were up to.
In one of those text messages, according to the affidavit, “Russell Taylor asked her if he and another adult female she identified could come to Jane Doe’s residence and engage in” an act of bestiality. The woman did not agree to that request, but told investigators “you could tell (Taylor) was serious.” She also told investigators that “she received an image file via text from Russell Taylor that depicted (another act of bestiality).”
Jared's house was raided and the rest quickly became history. Subway dropped him. Sharknado 3 dropped him. Jared accused Taylor of fraud and sued him. One quarter of the funds of the charity were unaccounted for, and the only money they ever paid out went to Taylor's $73k salary.
I'm no professional but it's hard not to draw the conclusion that Jared was paying Taylor to produce child porn with a non profit charity.
The world found out about Jared in 2015, but in 2007 and 2008 two women were finding out a lot about Jared.
Jared had met a franchisee in Florida and started a sexual relationship with her. She called the FBI when Jared started texting stuff like this:
In one series of texts sent from April 2008, Fogle tries to convince the franchisee, a woman, to advertise herself for sex on Craigslist. She could make $500 per act he explains and he could watch her have sex with other men. Fogle then goes on to apparently admit to paying for sex with a 16-year-old girl off Craigslist.
The woman franchisee writes: "Is this the same website you found that 16 year old you that you f---ed?" the woman replied, according to an affadavit.
  • "I still can't believe you only paid $100 for her."
  • Fogle reponds: "It was amazing!!!!"
  • "What part of her ad made you think she was selling sex?" the woman asked.
  • Fogle says "U will have to read them to see."
The woman got a lawyer and submitted the texts to Subway who sat on them.
Around the same time, Jared met Rochelle Herman Walrond, a journalist who initially remained anonymous, who came forward and said that she got suspicious about Jared when he called middle school girls hot
According to the woman, Jared would often visit schools in Sarasota County, and allegedly told her numerous times that, 'Middle school girls are hot.'"
She contacted the FBI who asked her to wear a wire. She went on to record Jared over a nearly 5 year period, pleading with the FBI to go ahead and arrest him with them always saying that they didn't have enough evidence and needed more.
So she tried to get Jared to incriminate himself. Over that 4.5 year period they talked about a lot of stuff, like that Jared wanted to fly to Thailand to have sex with children.
"I would fly all three of us clear across the world if we need to,"[Jared] says on the tape. "It would just make things a lot easier — if we're going to try and get some young kids with us. It would be a lot easier probably."
He gave her grooming tips:
"Well, if we get them segregated out ... you know, start talking or whatever ... and we get a little closer, and a little closer and a little closer and before you know it ... it just starts to happen," the man's voice says. "But I think that girl from the broken home could be a possibility, you know."
He daydreamed on the phone:
"Do you want to watch me f— a young girl, too?" the voice of Fogle asks. "Will you f— a young boy?" When Herman-Walrond asks if that would turn Fogle on, he responds with a whispered "yeah."
“I had a little boy. It was amazing,” Fogle reportedly said, in response to a question about being with children. “It just felt so good. I mean, it felt—it felt so good.”
He also, allegedly, asked her repeatedly to let him install hidden cameras in her kids’ rooms.
“I had two young children at the time, and he talked to me about installing hidden cameras in their rooms and asked me if I would choose which child I would like him to watch,” she told Inside Edition.
The audio recordings can be heard at this link. She reported him to Subway in 2009 and nothing happened.
At the same time this was happening, Jared was flying to New York to pay for sex with minors. He asked the minors who he paid for sex if they knew anyone else they could recommend, always stressing younger if possible.
Also, according to the charging documents:
Fogle received "images and videos of nude of partially clothed minors engaged in sexually explicit conduct," which were allegedly recorded by Russell Taylor, the former director of the Jared Foundation.
Taylor secretly filmed some of the minors in his home using hidden cameras that captured them changing clothes and bathing.
Taylor was in possession of 400 videos of child pornography upon his arrest.
In 2011, someone else reported Jared to Subway via their website and yet nothing happened.
All this came raining down on Jared in 2015 when his house was raided and he was arrested and later charged with 14 acts of sex involving minors. He was ultimately sentenced to 15 years in jail and had to pay restitution to his 14 of his many victims totaling $1.4 million. His wife divorced him as quick as she could, Subway cut ties with him and the dominoes started to tumble.
All of a sudden the past reports about Jared came to light and Subway didn't have an explanation. Lawsuits started flying. Jared's now ex wife accused Subway of covering up Jared's pedophilia even from her because their marriage made Jared more grounded and more marketable.
It's now a sick joke, but at the same time of jared's arrest, Subway was trying to rebrand him as a family man.
So why didn't Subway act on the various reports it had gotten about Jared over the years? As this site puts it, it was a story bookended by laziness. Jared's laziness brought him to Subway, and their laziness in vetting stories led to the end of the Jared era with a lot of human misery left in his wake.
Subway has waffled in its response. Rather than taking the path of clear messaging and communication, and aiming to transparent and authentic throughout this terrible situation for the victims and Fogle’s family (as well as the brand), the company hasn’t been clear about where it stands in the midst of this crisis. What message was Subway sending to its employees and franchisees by keeping Fogle around for as long as it did?
As soon as he went to jail he instantly gained 30 pounds
In 2016, he filed an appeal which was denied. The DA's office argued:
[that] Fogle's text messages to a woman, in which Fogle stated he would "pay big" if she could procure 14-year-old children, and that he "craved" underage Asian girls. In these text messages, he also expressed sexual interest in young boys, although there is to date no evidence that he paid for sex with male children.
Later that same year, a brawl broke out and Jared was nearly killed in an attack meant to send a message to all pedophiles.
Other than that, rumor has it that Jared has it pretty easy in jail which is disappointing to hear given all that he's responsible for.
In 2017, Fogle tried to pull the Sovereign Citizen defense and claim that the feds didn't have jurisdiction over him which I imagine gave the feds a good laugh. The motion was dismissed.
In 2018, Jared sued to void his conviction going so far as to name the president (among others) as a defendant. It was unclear how the president was involved and Jared was forced to remove him as a defendant.
He claimed:
he was wrongfully allowed to plead guilty to conspiracy to receive child pornography, claiming that conspiracy doesn’t apply to such an offense.
His suit was dismissed.
That same year a woman pen pal of Jared's sold their racy letters to Radar Online. Seen here and here. She also sold a recorded phone call where she and Jared discuss porn and his sexual preferences.
If he wanted to appeal to a parole board, surely sending hand-drawn pictures of his genitalia that later end up on radar online is not a good strategy.
In March 2020, three of associate Russell Taylor's child pornography convictions were overturned for ineffective counsel. He still faces trial on 9 other charges.
In the five years since Fogle was arrested, Subway has been reeling. In 2015, their co-founder passed away and a new CEO was brought in. Internal reports indicate that customer traffic is down 30%. They've laid off over 400 people from the corporate HQ and this summer they had to revoke a promotion due to a franchisee revolt over the pricing.
Subway was associated so long with Jared it may take time for customers to form a new association. They tried to drop him once, struggled, and re-hired him. Clearly Subway lived in denial while Jared was their spokesman and looked the other way as business boomed. The new marketing strategy involves athletes. Time will only tell if they can recover from one of the worst scandals to ever hit a sandwich chain.
As of September 2020, Russell Taylor was being held at a federal prison in Yazoo City, Mississippi; Fogle was being held at a federal prison in Littleton, Colorado.
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2020.09.15 09:59 plat0276 Husband admits he’s addicted to porn—we were already on rocky terms, where do I go from here?

So I guess the title says it all. We are young (25) but the problem is that he has cheated on me and we were working on repairing that, but this all starts two days ago.
Two days ago:
Husband: I put an app on my phone that filters out porn so I won’t be able to see anything NSFW
Me: confused, because I didn’t know porn was even an issue in our relationship?
He then admitted that he had stopped masturbating and that he swore off porn, this was a little weird to me because I never had any partners that I was uncomfortable with them masturbating. I then got extremely paranoid that he was once again cheating on me so I decided to snoop on his phone. Nothing out of the ordinary and then when I went to close some apps I saw his pictures app was up, which I found off as he is not one to have a lot of pictures (he only has about 50 on his phone, some of our daughter and some of mundane things) but what caught my eye was one of the thumbnails. I then went on to his pictures and went from “aww that’s a cute picture of (daughter)!” To “WHAT THE F***!!” He had saved a short clip of some porno and I’m sure someone who is well known in the porn industry (as I came to find when I googled her) and another of a woman that had what I assume to be Z cup breasts. I was furious because honesty is something that he is struggling with and I felt incredibly discouraged and upset that he had lied about something he WILLINGLY brought up!
I immediately put a child filter into his phone that he will not be able to disable himself, and deleted the damning pictures, and then today he decided to be unnecessarily rude and raise his voice at me to the point where I didn’t even want to be around him. I went to cook some dinner and run some errands with our daughter and when I got back I decided to come clean about what I did because I don’t want to lie to his face or pretend I don’t know. So I asked him if he had watched any porn recently. He said no. I then asked him again and told him to please be honest and he said no, again. And then I told him what I had done and what I had seen. This caused a huge argument and I told him I wasn’t interested in being with someone that continuously lies to me even after having had a heart to heart conversation in which I let him know how all of his little “omissions of truth” and “white lies” were hurting our chances of ever being together again in a happy manner. The thing is, the pictures and short clip were saved the day after he installed the app that filters his NSFW content, so now I don’t believe anything he’s said to me. The cheating absolutely destroyed our marriage and I honestly considered leaving, I don’t know why I stay if he’s not actively changing. Our sex life is such a joke and I have a high sex drive, so to me this is pretty hurtful. He says he doesn’t have urges to have sex only to watch porn and masturbate so to top off the hurt now I feel like an ugly beached whale because my husband doesn’t want me.
I am truly at a loss and I know I am young enough to restart my life with a new partner but I never wanted to give my child a broken home, I wanted to have the one and done marriage where we live happily and work through whatever life throws at us, however I feel like I’ve reached my limit and I am absolutely devastated.
Is there a future for us? Should I even keep trying? This is all getting to the point where it is almost 2am and I am still up because I can’t sleep and I feel absolutely destroyed. I believe that he is a good person but he’s dumping so much emotional baggage on me and I am not a therapist or his mother and I firmly believe I deserve better, but I do love him. When is enough enough?
Has anyone here successfully overcome this addiction? How do I even go from here? Please someone help, I am so lost.
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2020.09.14 12:59 Objective_Union1944 The girl I saw walking on the streets

Its midnight and the air is crisp and cuul.. I'm with my big cuzin and little brother, we are messed up on cheap beer that we could afford by combining our desperate cash to acquire these potent potions. We are going to buy a couple more each with these last chance change we've scrambled when we see two figures in the beams of my mazda rx.. It seems like they need a ride a quite frankly I didn't see them till big Cuz's voice strips me of conciousness and says "aye bro pull over, pick them up " reluctutly I pull over and call out " aye yall come here " that's when I see her surprised half covered face from her lightly dyed blue hair. She smiles and jumps in her partner wasn't so adament.. we drive off and he offers prices on paintings he tries to sell us ... " aye bro you could hang this on the back of your front seatz..." I couldn't hear him fixated on the mysterious blue dye that had graced us with her shy yet mischievous behaviour.. The boy pissed me off with his aggressive barter I gave him the look shutting him down as big cuz threw his hands all over ms blue dye mischivy.. she was a lively one and as soon as we stopped at the gas station where they were headed, lil bro goes to buy the beers and she throws herself to the front seat in which he had been occupying.. Immediately she grabs my 40 oz that I had up front in the cup holder and slaughters it's all the way down.. Though it was about finished she killed it rather quickly.. " Yo WTF ! " I was saving it and rather pissed until she looks at me with her foxy white girl look.. I dont know why but forgiveness takes over me and now I just want to know her so bad... " Yo kyle let me drive bro !" Big cuz has his drinks hitting and wants a joy ride experience.. "Fuck that shit man, you had more than me I think I can handle it " we start arguing the whole time lil bro is in the has station.. out of nowhere this girl throw her excitement in the conversation.. Mostly gibberish assuming she had been drinking as well, lil bro comes back with 3 2 11s each for us original riders.. "Aight get in nigga, damn I wanna get outta here." Saying this I back out rather quickly and hit the curb there near the dumpster.. Mr painter bails out saying he doesn't need the shit and I gladly pull out leaving him to walk.. so I guess I can have my fun with ms blue.. she was american oh no dont about it white skin curvy yet thin and tall like a model.. all mine I thought.. she was already in the front seat of my car she was already aggressively sexy talking to me.. and she was nice .. you know the type of girl that just nails being the up front and forward type? Yeah that was her the whole car ride, little did I know we were meant to be together.. We get back to my crib and we pretty much fucked at this point all drinks are gone mine gulped respectively by ms blue dye. I park the car and cuz and lil bro walk in conversating.. My eyes forward wondering who is this girl? I can feel her gaze as I turn my head and there she is.. I get the true view of her now, your type of country white girl punk... Probably having a brother that grows shrooms off ther cows shit.. I'm fucked up at this point and I start the car back up and take off.. we go back to the gas station so I could buy one more drink.. Going in I realize she was a nasty girl.. But only for her own safety.. I know she was clean down there so that's when I decided I was going to fuck her this night.. Coming back to the car there she was with her look so white girlish.. with a wry smile.. cute by firm.. at this point I'm so drunk I want to get the nasty going.. Ok yes we were talking the whole car ride asking the usual this and that but now I was going all in.. I start the car and look at her at yell at the top of my lungs " were gonna go fuck!" To my surprise she says " mmm I dont know" right ?? Dude, major bone alert.. I in the most disrespectful way say " Yeah we are and I'm pulling up to my aunt's place" xx " ok, fine.." GTFO HERE.. HAAAA bro I parked my car a whip my dick out and she starts suckin.. Damn bro I must of went porno mode no thanks to the ice I'd been smoking earlier gave my libido am extro 30 mins... Bro I was so into it and every time my dick came out her she grabbed it and put it back in.. Do you know how that feels? When your hole is that into it with you ? Literally grabs it full and directs it back in... gaaaaahh damn I miss her so much ... what I'm trynna say is holy shit bro I didn't even get her number snap instagram messenger or nothing and now I met this girl and om the first not got it in nastely and I dont even have her information ... And after all the banging which lasted about 40 50 mins we said we love eachother... But what if I never see her again ? Damn... - Peter pan
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2020.09.14 01:12 drowning79 I reckon some of you will relate

You said we have to be a team and quit drinking together but yesterday you were not being a team player. Instead you moped in the morning and rolled your eyes, sarcastically questioning my ability to drive alone and pack the trailer without you.
You insisted on coming along then all day you sat in the kitchen and looked at reddit. What was the point of you being there? We didn’t even pack the trailer, I could’ve driven it home alone, I’m not completely useless.
After we got home you went and drank tequila in the shed. Oh ho! Ok! So you’re noncommittal about the team that you said we have to be on. Does that mean I can bail out too? Hang on, I’m quitting booze for me - not you.
But still I felt betrayed. You’ve said we’re a team, but you’ve only ever said it when you’re drunk. After the shed you came down and saw me crying. I was crying because i don’t think we’re gonna last. And other reasons. Because everything is fucked.
But then you gave me a big hug and it was all I needed and I felt better. Then you told me about the tequila and I realised that you would not have been capable of giving me that hug if you hadn’t drunk the tequila and my heart sank again. I need affection and warmth but until that hug (and after it) there was only silence and distance and coldness like you’re blocking out the world including me, muffling it all with booze, weed and reddit.
Once you said to me that on gloomy days on the boat seeing my smile would brighten up your day, but I don’t think it works anymore. Unless it never worked and that was just you shmoozing me. In any case, I wasn’t real back then but now I am. Way too real, along with my bratty “autistic” kids and my dotty mother and my bloody father who had to go and fucking die falling from your fixie and my annoying, difficult, messy life my not perfect body my crooked teeth my thin shitty hair my lack of domme tendencies, my lack of a massive cock, or the urge to fuck you with said non-existent cock my boring microclit and ugly pussy that I shave painstaking for you my sagging boobs and flat ass. I honesty I believe I disgust you.
You said at the beginning, you love my body. You said sex with me was the best you’d ever had and you’ve had a lot - I was off the planet - another level. You said and still say that I should give masterclasses in blowjobs because every one I give is mind blowing. You said I’d “saved you from turning gay.” Wtf It was love bombing. You’ve built everything up. You’re a cunt.
I was the strongest I’d ever been in my life before we began our relationship. I was free of alcohol, happy and confident. Now I am drinking again, smoking weed daily, I’ve become weak and insecure. I worry about our relationship almost all the time, when I should be worrying about other things.
I feel like I’m back at square one, where I was at Christmas time when you fucking cheated on me with your ex six months in. (You’d already said you loved me) But I didn’t even start drinking again then. That’s how fucking strong I was. I was so deeply in love with you and so deeply hurt. I don’t know why I forgave you. You hate me being weak but you don’t mind me being weak for you.
When you waver in any way about being on the team, it reminds me that you are a liar and promise breaker. It awakens my paranoid inner guard dog, and sets her raging against her chain. It makes me angry and think there must be way more secretive dodgy shit going on. It makes it hard to believe anything you’ve ever said. It reminds me of when I fell asleep in your lap on the couch one night so you nearly hooked up with a dude off squirt.org for blowjobs but “didn’t go through with it” and since you came clean about it, you seem to think it’s ok. I know you did it. You showed me the chat but not before you’d deleted half the messages. You know if you tell me I’ll kick you out. The chatting alone was bad enough.
Then there is porn. I feel strongly that you have no desire to make love, no desire to kiss, cuddle or touch me at all for the vast majority of the time. You don’t seem to need or want physical intimacy. Like a robot. Except, mysteriously, when the internet wasn’t working for a while. Then suddenly you were all over me, and sex was on again. I know you jerk off everyday, because you’ve told me, and I’m pretty sure you use porn for that. That would kinda be ok, if it weren’t for the fact that I’m left with the barest of scraps if anything at all.
Perhaps this is paranoia. But my gut says I’m right, I feel like I’ve just put two and two together. You’re probably bored of me sexually because you only understand sex through porn. I have told you I resent your use of porn. It impacts our sex life and makes me feel inferior. If you’re bored, then I’m not the right person for you. Find someone who has a domme kink for real. Or a real penis. You’re not straight. It’s as simple as that. You’d prefer to suck a fake cock strapped onto me than eat out my actual real pussy. You’ve admitted as much. And that demonstrates how little my pleasure and feelings matter. You’re absolutely gagging for someone’s cock, not my pussy.
I do not want to shame you but I can’t be in a sexless/ physical affection-less relationship. That’s misery for me. Fuck that!! I want a guy who’s into me and wants to bang me silly every day of his life.
This is driving me insane because you say there is no problem but there’s clearly a problem. I’ve never felt so undesired in a relationship and I’ve never had less sex in a relationship even when my kids were tiny. We barely have sex once a month if that and it’s not cause we don’t get a chance, or any of the other reasons you give, it’s because you make it so blatantly clear that you have no interest. One time when I tried to initiate you said I was “rapey”. I was hurt so you said it was just a joke. Haha. I won’t try again though, you can be sure.
When you told me in the beginning that sex was very important to you I must have taken it the wrong way. I said “same here” but what I meant was “sex in a relationship” is extremely important to me. Not random shame-ridden sex with strangers from the internet, or the cheap thrills of porn. I meant making love blissfully and unselfconsciously in mutual trust and vulnerability. Enjoying easy familiarity with each other’s rhythms. That is magic mind shattering sex to me. We’ve done that a few times, but most of the time I feel like we’re just acting out a porno you’ve seen or some sex you’ve had with someone else and that doesn’t get me going. I hate porn. It’s all the same and it’s boring and it’s ruining our sex life. You’re letting that happen. I think. Or something along those lines.
The thing is, if you don’t acknowledge that there’s a problem, how can this situation improve? How can I even trust you?
You’re the one who says that you want to be my life partner and that we’re a team. But you go behind my back. You say you love me and desire me but you constantly reject me. How can we be a team with this gulf between us? I honestly don’t know why you are with me and not with a ladyboy. I think you’re ashamed of your sexuality. The only shame you should have is that you are a liar and a coward and that you have hurt me and probably others so much.
We’ve barely spoken to one another today and you went to bed without saying goodnight. Instead snarling at me that you’ve “told me a thousand times you don’t give a fuck about Harry Potter.” We’ve hardly locked eyes for days it seems.
You’re a million miles away, and yet all day you were nearby, helping me burn and clear the bush, helping my daughter get her lunch. Now I have to go and lie beside you, with my back to you....wouldn’t want you to get the wrong idea. You didn’t drink today and secretly I am proud of you. I won’t say, it will feed your mommy fetish.
You’re beginning to fit into a pattern. So perfectly. It’s amazing you don’t know how stereotypical you are.
I want to know why you stay when you seem to feel it’s such a prison. Think about how happy you’d be on a boat or a tropical island with ladyboys then tell me why you stay here?
I want you to come clean about absolutely everything. Tell me why I should allow you to stay!?
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2020.09.11 20:13 MoonLightxxx88 its okie to relaps.

hurmmm..its okie to relaps..but dont use it as excuse till make you adicted then make your searching for something like example porn and create an excuse to relaps....reason why nofap exist is to not get adicted...if you have partner,go on..have sex,thats normal..masturbate with your partner,thats normal..but if you use thats masturbation,as a shortcut to feel the rush of dopamine..thats is an adiction...if you masturbate daily,reduce it,control it..thats will make your self be more focus,have planning,have reason..not to other,but to yourself..you will feel you in control,have self confident,not easy to give up,be more positive....there is nothing good if you get adicted on porn,masturbation and dopamine..it will make you feel negative,low self esteem,down,no confident..again,thats why you need to control it..its okie to relaps,but be better next day....if you feel like you dont have motivation to do nofaps,change your mind...set it into,why do i need to masturbate and get adicted to it..is it a must to have motivation even you know you dont get any benefit when you masturbate,but you gain more if you not masturbate into cheap shity porno...ask yourself,think......be a better version of yourself tmrw...i know,its hard to control ...nofap is not about totaly stop human natural need,but its about to admit it was an adiction and have control on it.... *sorry for my english and typo.
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2020.09.11 13:38 illegible-handwritng Porn is shit.

It's just always some dude with an uncomfortably big dick, often without much face or bod going for him, jack-hammering a girl while she screams out in apparently perpetual orgasm. There isn't even a build up, hell she starts moaning before his dick is even out. Then she starts moaning like she's already cumming as soon as the head goes in, and the rest of the video is her screaming how much she loves it.
I get most porn is geared for guys, but honestly I've never found a porn vid I've been able to get into for this reason. It never looks realistic, the guys are always ugly and it often looks violent/misogynistic too. You can't even have a blowjob scene without her face getting forcibly rammed with a giant cock. Why is that necessary? Sure it's a kink, but not everybody's. Yet it's in every porno ever.
And considering this is where most guys learn their sex tips, it's no wonder it's so hard to find a decent sex partner. You'll get my orgasm when you've earned it, thanks. And stick to your pornos if you know 100 different ways to get a blowjob but don't know the first thing about eating out, or that sex doesn't finish when you do.
Ughhhh
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2020.09.08 03:21 AsymmetricPanda Lose your shit

Oh man. Most embarrassing thing to happen in my life. I had just found out about having a girlfriend that was DTF. We met senior in high school and actually stayed together for a while, broke up on great terms, and actually still talk a couple times a year. What I will never understand was how this one incident didnt end everything on the spot. She was in to experimenting, but at the time neither of us had any "experience" in the field so to speak. Fast forward a few months after our first session and her parents go on a business trip. I go over to her place, and she says she saw a porno clip with some butt fuckin' in it. Needless to say 18 year old me immediately got one of those high school boners that you could hammer a nail with. Ohhhh really I say. We try it out, lots of lube, and luckily a condom. Now at the time neither of us knew if you pull out to fast, your partner can "lose their shit." Well the combination of too much lube, too little knowledge, and youthful exuberance created a perfect storm. My dick slipped out of her ass and well... there was an unintended accompaniment. As I see my now brown dick and a pulverized shit on my thighs and the sheets, I have a panic reaction. Now fellas, I've had chronic diarrhea my entire life and I'm really tall so I'm standing next to the bed, and she's on hands and knees. I panic and immediately unleash a deluge of black and green sludge on her WHITE CARPET. And that, dear reader, was the first time I truly wanted to kill myself.
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2020.09.07 17:41 konekto THE 3 GOLD RULES, based on 5 YEARS OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

Hi there,
It's been 3 months without using online pornography. After five years of fight, now I can say that I'm starting to find stability on the streak. I believe this is the major shift I've made since 2015.

I realized, after all the experience I've got these last years, it's all sum up in 3 basic rules (non-negotiable):

1.- NO ONLINE PORNOGRAPHY: This is the must. It doesn't matter why you are here. What I've learnt after all this journey is that porn will never make you feel fullfilled in your life. NEVER. Say bye to pornography and all the sexual artificial harem, and you'll start feeling way better in 2-3 months if you respect these rules with consistency.

2.- SENSATIONAL PHYSICAL MASTURBATION IN MODERATION (if sex is not possible to you right now): when you are single, and you don't have partner, it's very tough (sexually, affective speaking). Then you need to ejaculate after a while. I recommend to the most addicted people to begin with a 2 MONTH PMO-FREE AND OTHER SEXUAL ARTIFICIAL STIMULIES ABSTINENCE. This will help your brain to rewire. Once that time is passed, you can start to MASTURBATE AT LEAST ONE TIME EVERY 2-3 WEEKS. This will help you have control on your lust, and you'll be telling your body: "hey, the best option you have right now is to go out and meet people, because porno it's not an option".
So let's be clear, use masturbation in moderation (one time every 15-21 days) focused on YOUR OWN FEELINGS, AND YOUR PHYSICAL PLEASURE. This is too important. Because then you'll be able to enjoy sex again. It's about the feelings and the satisfaction you feel while masturbating or having sex. Ejaculation it's not a goal, it's a consequence of enjoying physical sexual stimulation.

3.- PRESENCE, BALLS, GUTS: you need balls to live your life. To go out there and literally eat the world. If the mountain doesn't go to you, you have to go to the mountain to get what you want. If the girl doesn't come to you, you have to go talk to her. That's basic.

Methods and specific techniques, in my opinion, are helpful. Though, the difference (if you want to boost your recovery) is made in ATTITUDE, combined with ZERO PORNOGRAPHY and PHYSICAL SENSATIONAL SEX/MASTURBATION based on FEELINGS AND SENSATIONAL PRESENCE.

Check YBOP, I definitely recommend it to help you recover.


EDIT: Because the rules are "universal", doesn't mean they have to be forgotten. Simplicity makes the difference
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2020.09.05 14:46 OneSilverRaven Raven Reviews: Lucy -The Eternity She Wished For-, The illusion of falling in love.

BUILT TO BE LIKE US
Lucy Valentine is an advanced android capable of mimicking human behavior and biology. Her artificial skin is warm to the touch, her body moves naturally the way a human does, she can smile and laugh and cry, and she is 100% artificial. She is not and never will be real. But its more then that isn't it? Not only is she an android in the universe she occupies but I, as a reader, always knew she wasn't real because she's a fictional character in a story saved on my computer. Her humanity was always irrelevant, even if I agreed with the game's narrative and ascribed her more human characteristics she was always going to be an illusion. Nothing in a visual novel is real. But that's true of every visual novel right? We don't really believe the characters on screen exist. Doki Doki might want to pretend that Monika is a thinking, feeling person trapped inside her simulation but we don't ACTUALLY believe that. No one is being taken to court for murder because they deleted her from the game files. So it would seem to me to be obvious that Lucy Valentine is doomed to never be acknowledged as a person. If I had never heard of this novel and you explained to me its premise I would have told you exactly that. But take one glance at the steam reviews and that is the exact opposite of the sentiment you will see.
I Don't get it. Somewhere along my play through I must have missed something because I feel like this should be so obvious. How can people fall in love with something artificial?
THE DESIRE TO FEEL
I'm not going to get into the argument about how visual novels are more then a genre of porno because I'd be preaching to the choir and I think this argument is well settled. Many of the best games in the genre have little or no pornography and even the ones that do are 90% plus clean so this isn't something worth debating. But I think we need to be honest with each other and say their is a sizable group in this community if not a majority that either got into the genre or stayed for the porn. That isn't a condemnation, I'm not making any value judgement on people, but we're lying to ourselves if we don't acknowledge this. Now a reasonable question to ask is why this is the case because even in the raunchiest most straight forward novels like Imouto Paradise which is little more the a string of echii scenes with the barest connecting thread between them reading a novel is a lot of work for something you can find free online. What advantage does a visual novel have over a henti movie or a live action porno? I don't think their is an easy answer to that but most likely it just comes down to preference. The work necessary to reach echii scenes that turns some away are the thing attracting others to the experience.
Now I don't have a psychology degree and I'm not going to pretend my opinion has any authority here but I think their is a high correlation between visual novel readers who are interested in the pornographic elements and desire to feel attached to their sexual partner. In other words, yes their are millions of hours of free porn on the internet but that artificial atmosphere is less appealing to this group of people then getting to know a fictional girl, asking her out, dating and finally having sex. You'll see elements of this sometimes in VN discussions. For every reader that claims they don't read echii content and would prefer it removed from certain if not all VNs their are just as many defending (or at least joking about defending) their inclusion. What arguments do they use to justify their stance? That it feels more "complete" and "final" to have romance routes end with henti, providing a satisfying conclusion to the romance arcs. Maybe someone reading this can point me to another example but I've personally never seen someone claim they would prefer echii be sprinkled throughout a VN or that it feels satisfying to them to have a sex scene ANYWHERE it always seems to be something they advocate to bookend the story. I don't want to analyze this too deeply but the common theme of the discussion points me toward the idea that their is an unspoken expectation of building up to these moments, not a simple desire for them to be randomly placed as fan service.
It makes since to me that the type of person who prefers sex to come after getting to know someone rather then someone who wants the immediate gratification of sex is looking for a more emotional experience then a physical one. A desire to feel connected to a person instead of a pure rush of endorphins. This desire for attachment is a big part of this community even beyond the echii side of things. How many novels have been recommended on this forum because the characters lived a happy slice of life existence devoid of serious issue and how many have been recommended because characters you grow attached to while reading experience tragedy and heartbreak? I think VN readers value that feeling of attachment more then is often discussed and that's why novels with incredibly low stakes but deeply personal stories are rated so highly in this community with comparatively few stories about Earth shattering consequences. That's not to say their aren't stories like that but for every Alternative I can name you five IMHHWs.
PICTURE OF A GIRL
Lucy TESWF is a short novel about a boy in the near future who finds a personal android that looks like a young girl in a scrap yard. Over the course of several days he grows fond of her and the two grow close before the boy's father, sick of seeing what he considers to be a destructive technology, lights the android on fire in their yard destroying it. The whole thing takes about 5 hours to read give or take. The novel's protagonist begins the story not quite knowing why he decided to salvage the android and ends it determined to rebuild its body to grant Lucy's wish to always be remembered even as she grows obsolete and breaks down. The arc of the story is less of a romance and more of the protagonist learning to appreciate Lucy as a person and the meta narrative is a question of what a person even is. Breaking this novel down scene by scene would be an exercise in repeating those sentences. The two grow closer, Lucy expresses her views on being alive, the protagonist questions if she is, repeat.
Lucy by her own admission does not experience the world like a human. She mentions casually that while she was programmed to know how to cook she can't actually taste the food she makes. Her mind is ruled by the laws of robotics and depending on how you want to view the narrative its her rigid adherence to these laws she has no choice but to obey that leads to her destruction as she attempts to assert free will and fails. Theirs even a disturbing scene where the protagonist hugs her and she asks to confirm he's 18 before engaging in further physical activity implying she was made able to preform those functions but has no need to consent to them because she is not capable of doing so as a non-person. The narrative is constantly providing the reader with reasons to think of Lucy as a machine but still the protagonist questions if she doesn't have something more to her. Every character in the game is telling the protagonist Lucy is just a robot but he still refuses to drop the issue.
This loops me back around to talking about visual novels in general because just like Lucy NONE of the people in VNs are real. Mitsurugi Meiya is not really the daughter of a rich Japanese man who left her a fortune she could never spend if she tried. Nobody kidnapped Junpei and forced him to escape the titanic. These characters aren't people so why do we talk about them like they are? Why bother making fan discs like Flight Diary and Photonmelodies about fictional constructs that don't exist? Why do we become so attached? I don't have the answer to that question. I don't feel anything for Lucy Valentine because I don't see it as a person. I think i just fundamentally lack the ability to view AI as sentient and deserving of emotion. But i'd by lying if I said I've never felt attached to a character in a VN.
I cried the first time I saw Mikado Shiina confess her feelings on the roof of the school. I'll never forget it. I still think about it from time to time as one of the most powerful moments I've ever read. You can tell me she isn't real and whatever emotions i'm pretending she has are an illusion but it doesn't matter my mind still associates that moment with heartbreak. I can look at that image of her on the school roof and it all comes flooding back to me.
WHY THIS NOVEL IS WORTH TALKING ABOUT
I don't think anyone reads visual novels to actually fall in love with the girls in them. Nor do I think that the average visual novel reader will care deeply about or even like half of the characters they encounter. But I do think their is something in this community and genre that attracts people who want to fall in love. We all have different hobbies and perspectives, preferring certain stories. Reading my reviews I'm sure you can tell I favor certain styles and narratives praising certain aspects over others. Their is no one description that would fit the thousands of people on this forum but generally speaking their must be a certain amount of willingness to pretend that even though the pictures on the screen feature people who aren't real we can treat them like they are.
I think that's why this novel has so many positive reviews. The population of people willing to read a visual novel are already predisposed to accept the humanity of constructs that we can recognize are clearly artificial and even be told repeatedly are artificial while still believing their is something more there. We WANT to get attached to characters, we WANT to see them as real even when they aren't. We want them to have the ability to taste and touch and act of their own desires. Like the protagonist of this game we cling to the idea that despite what everyone is saying and is probably true we can see something more.
So what can we take away from that? Well I'm not the best person to ask seeing as I wrote this whole paper because I was shocked that people were so positive over what I thought to be a below average novel but I'll weigh in anyway. Visual novels are an outlet to pretend just like any other form of media. The focus on romance and building relationships aside just like any other genre it was always going to have people who became invested in the stories it told. Lucy's wish to be remembered is unimportant on its own but I think its a good metaphor for what we look to take away from these novels. Something to remember that lives on after the experience is over. A little piece of something ethereal that represents our love of the story and memory of what we observed. The actual words on the screen and the hours we spend absorbing them are worth less then the time we spend remembering them. I think that's a wholesome interpretation of the hobby.
Edit: Formatting
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2020.09.03 16:39 leaveittotheburner I am grateful for committing to NoFap

I didn't believe that NoFap would change my life like it did-to be honest I still get surprised at how amazing my life is. Before I committed to NoFap my life was utter chaos you can use your imagination on how awful it was,living became a task at that point. But somehow deep,deep,deep down inside I knew there was something special here and by doing something different could only improve my life. Below is a list of benefits that I've encountered along the process:
Physical;
Mental;
That's all I have to contribute right now. By all means list some of your benefits I'd like to hear them
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2020.09.02 14:11 CaerwynLightbringer Why quitting porn may be harder than quitting other addictions, and why you should do it.

Hello there!
I want to share with you a piece of information I received from my psychiatrist about quitting porn and how it may be harder to quit.
Porn, unlike other addictions, isn't regulated just by the "addiction center" of our brain, the urge to watch porn also comes from the biological impulse we have to procreate, and some of us, because we started to consume sexual material earlier in our lives, have come to associate that biological instinct with it, so we replace our desire to have sex (which, with the exception of hypersexuality, is totally healthy), with the desire to watch porn.
Why you should quit porn anyways
First, let me start by saying this. Masturbation without porn, as long as you don't do it excessively (which may be a case of excessive libido), and don't do it at inappropriate times, is a healthy behaviour, and you shouldn't abstain from orgasm for very long periods of time. Of course, fighting our biological impulses might increase your willpower, but the possibility of causing problems in the long run is real.
But to the main point now. You shouldn't quit porn because you want to attract potential sexual partners, or to gain "superpowers". You should quit porn because porn is disgusting. I watched documentaries about pornography, and read interviews with former porn stars, and the industry is rotten and beyond salvation. Here's some facts about how it all works:
The porn industry is selling us a fantasy, and that fantasy warps our sense of reality. For these reasons, please save yourself, and stop watching porn, and help put an end to the exploitation of thousands of men and women.
BUT PLEASE, DON'T ABSTAIN FROM ORGASM FOR TOO LONG (unless you want to become a priest/monk).
Note: I read "Getting Started with NoFap" and I'm aware of "hard mode", and I wanted to conclude this post with this. Hard mode may be beneficial for a 90 day reboot, so you can reboot your sexuality completely, but I don't really recommend doing it for much longer than that. I'm not a professional, but this comes from my recent appointment with my psychiatrist, a trained professional, where we had a lengthy conversation about this topic, and a lot of research about masturbation and porn consuming.
Sources (Some of them):
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2020.09.02 03:37 RubberDucksickle How do I tell my neighbour his sex is too loud.

Currently it's 2:30am and this is the third night in a row I've been left wide awake listening to what sounds like a live taking of a porno shoot that will soon appear online, the walls of the block of flats I live in may as well be made of paper for all the good it's going as me and my partner lie awake listening to a jackhammer and a squeeky toy go at it in for over 2 hours now for the 3rd night in a row.
It's started at 12:30am but seemed to only last 10-15mins, I was woken at 2am and decided enough was enough, got dressed and knocked the door, as you can image my knocking must have thrown the cast of PH of their rythem because now it's all quiet on the Western front but lying in bed me and my partner are unable to drift off back to dream land for fear of it starting again and being subjected to another 2 hours (hopefully 2 minutes) of wood against brick wall, jammer against squeeky toy all the while getting more frustrated and angry at our unknown neighbours who think 2 in the morning is acceptable to be letting the whole street know they're having a great time.
Someone else went and did the knocking for us yesterday but it's getting beyond a joke, when I say this is loud I mean it is loud. I may as well be in the room next to them nevermind the flat below them, the whole block can hear it, even those down/up and across can hear.
I'm working 2 jobs and get little sleep as it is. So please tell me, how do I get the message across to my neighbour that his 2am sessions are both disrespectful to me, the block and everyone in the street as well as totally inappropriate without me sounding like an asshole because God do I want to sleep.
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2020.08.31 16:13 cpxt Jan Marsalek: Die Rolle der Geheimdienste im Wirecard-Skandal

Die Sondersitzung des Finanzausschusses soll die Rolle der Geheimdienste beleuchten. Die Flucht des früheren Vorstands Marsalek macht die Abgeordneten misstrauisch.
Jan Marsalek muss gemerkt haben, dass es für ihn eng wird. Vier Tage bevor Wirecard Luftbuchungen über 1,9 Milliarden Euro in der Bilanz zugeben musste, setzte sich das frühere Vorstandsmitglied des Zahlungsdienstleisters ab. Von Klagenfurt flog der österreichische Manager mit einem Privatjet erst nach Tallin, die Hauptstadt Estlands, und dann weiter in die weißrussische Hauptstadt Minsk.
Mittlerweile soll Marsalek auf einem Anwesen westlich von Moskau untergebracht sein. Dort stehe er nicht mehr unter Aufsicht des russischen Militärgeheimdienstes GRU, sondern unter Kontrolle des russischen Auslandsgeheimdienstes SWR, erfuhr das Handelsblatt von Bekannten des Geflüchteten, die aus Gründen ihrer eigenen Sicherheit nicht namentlich genannt werden wollen.
Der SWR habe auch darauf bestanden, Marsalek aus Weißrussland wegzubringen, nahe der russischen Hauptstadt sei es für ihn „sicherer als dort“. Marsalek habe die Zusicherung erhalten, nicht ausgeliefert zu werden.
Wirecard und die Geheimdienste – das ist ein bisher wenig ausgeleuchtetes Kapitel des facettenreichen Wirtschaftskrimis. Am Montag soll es Thema werden in der Sondersitzung des Finanzausschusses im Bundestag. Die Abgeordneten haben Johannes Geismann eingeladen, er ist Staatssekretär im Bundeskanzleramt und Beauftragter für die Nachrichtendienste des Bundes. Ob Geismann selbst kommt oder das Kanzleramt jemanden anderen schickt, war bis zuletzt unklar.
Das Thema Geheimdienste steht jedenfalls auf der Tagesordnung. Bislang ist dazu wenig bekannt. Die Bundesregierung hat in ihren Unterlagen für das Parlament bisher stets auf Nicht-Kenntnis verwiesen: „Dem Bundesnachrichtendienst liegen keine nachrichtendienstlichen Erkenntnisse zur Wirecard AG vor“, heißt es dort.
Und die Antwort auf eine neue Anfrage des Linken-Finanzexperten Fabio De Masi, die dem Handelsblatt vorliegt, erklärt: „Dem Bundesamt für Verfassungsschutz und dem Bundesnachrichtendienst liegen keine nachrichtendienstlichen Erkenntnisse zu Jan Marsalek vor.“
Professionelle Hilfe aus dem Ausland?
Die Opposition überzeugt das nicht. Dass Marsalek so schnell untertauchen konnte, lege die Vermutung nahe, dass er professionelle Hilfe aus dem Ausland gehabt habe. „Das lernt man nicht im BWL-Studium“, sagte FDP-Finanzexperte Florian Toncar. Marsalek, der mit internationalem Haftbefehl gesucht wird, ist nun schon über zwei Monate verschwunden.
Das Bundeskanzleramt müsste erklären, welche Erkenntnisse es zur Flucht Marsaleks nach Russland und über Verbindungen zu den dortigen Geheimdiensten habe, sagte die finanzpolitische Sprecherin der Grünen, Lisa Paus. In Moskau wird der Fall Wirecard längst diskutiert. „Wir sehen nicht das Ende, sondern den Anfang einer großen Spionage-Geschichte, von letztendlich größerer Bedeutung als die Affäre um den NSA-Überläufer Snowden“, ist das den Geheimdiensten nahestehende Blatt „Versija“ überzeugt.
Auch Roman Dobrochotow, einer der führenden Investigativjournalisten Russlands, ist überzeugt: Marsalek habe zumindest mit dem Geheimdienst in Russland zusammengearbeitet. Und der Geflüchtete könnte „für Russland eine Art Zahlungskurier gewesen“ sein.
Das Interesse der russischen Geheimdienste an Marsalek und Wirecard liegt auf mehreren Ebenen: Der junge Österreicher, der nach Angaben seiner Bekannten gut Russisch spricht und in Moskau exzellent vernetzt ist, soll geholfen haben, Gelder für pikante russische Auslandsoperationen transferiert zu haben – etwa für getarnte russische Investitionen in „failed states“ wie Libyen sowie zur Bezahlung von Söldnern in Syrien, der Ukraine und afrikanischen Staaten.
Die Tausenden Söldner müssten finanziert, Zahlungswege verschleiert werden, denn Russland bestreite zumeist, diese Söldner einzusetzen, heißt es in diplomatischen Kreisen. Wenn Marsalek dies für die Russen organisiert habe, sei er „besonders wertvoll“ für den Kreml. Dann sei er ein „Geheimnisträger erster Güte“, auch bis in höchste Kreise in Moskau.
Wirecard war für Nachrichtendienste interessant
Auch habe Marsalek über Wirecard für russische Betreiber von Onlinecasinos und Glücksspielseiten Geschäfte angebahnt, heißt es übereinstimmend in russischen Medien. Dieser Sektor ist in Russland gesetzlich verboten, russische Finanzdienstleister dürfen keinen Zahlungsverkehr dafür abwickeln – ergo könnten Wirecards Dienste einen Ausweg geboten haben. Dass über Wirecards Partner in Dubai massenweise Glücksspiel- und Porno-Transaktionen abgewickelt wurden, zeigen Unterlagen, die das Handelsblatt einsehen konnte.
Diese Daten und Informationen könnten Wirecard für zahlreiche Nachrichtendienste interessant gemacht haben. Zudem gibt es Hinweise, dass der Zahlungsdienstleister weitere Leistungen für Geheimdienstmitarbeiter angeboten haben könnte. Gegenüber Vertrauten hatte Marsalek in der Vergangenheit sehr offen über entsprechende Tätigkeiten gesprochen. „Jan sagte, Wirecard stellt für alle möglichen Geheimdienste Kreditkarten her, liefert Informationen über Zahlungsflüsse und zur Frage, welche Personen hinter den Transaktionen stecken“, erinnert sich ein Insider.
Er spreche täglich mit Nachrichtendiensten, brüstete sich Marsalek in seinem Umfeld. Zu seinen Partnern zählten die sogenannten „Five Eyes“, also der Geheimdienstverbund aus US-amerikanischen, britischen, kanadischen, australischen und neuseeländischen Diensten. Außerdem arbeitete Marsalek nach eigener Aussage mit dem israelischen Mossad und dem deutschen BND zusammen. Auch nach Russland habe er beste Kontakte, verwies wiederholt auf befreundete Oligarchen, erzählt ein Vertrauter.
Das letzte große Geschäftsprojekt, das der flüchtige Vorstand betreut haben soll, war die geplante Übernahme der Zahlungsabwicklung für das türkische Mautsystem durch Wirecard. Marsalek reiste hierzu in den Monaten vor dem Absturz wiederholt in die Türkei, die auch als Finanzdrehscheibe des Nahen Ostens dient.
Noch auf der Flucht schrieb er einem Vertrauten per Textnachricht, er habe „mehrere Pässe, wie jeder gute Geheimagent“. Angesichts der behaupteten Kontakte, etwa zum deutschen BND, wollen die Bundestagsabgeordneten jetzt im Finanzausschuss nachhaken.
„Die bisherige Antwort der Bundesregierung, es lägen keine geheimdienstlichen Erkenntnisse vor, überzeugt uns nicht“, sagte Grünen-Finanzexpertin Paus. „Wir werden das Thema deshalb noch mal von verschiedenen Seiten aufrollen, bis hin zur Frage, ob Wirecard für Geheimdienstmitarbeiter Kreditkarten ausgestellt hat oder nicht.“
Kritik an unklaren Aussagen der Bundesregierung
Der Finanzexperte der Linken-Bundestagsfraktion, De Masi, kritisiert: „Marsalek hat sich mit seinen BND-Kontakten gebrüstet. Dennoch gibt es bis heute keine klare Aussage der Bundesregierung, ob der BND mit dem Skandalkonzern zusammengearbeitet hat. Das ist ein Unding.“
Die Abgeordneten interessieren sich zudem für die Rolle von Klaus-Dieter Fritsche. Er war bis Anfang 2018 Staatssekretär im Bundeskanzleramt und Beauftragter für die Nachrichtendienste des Bundes. Nachdem er in den Ruhestand verabschiedet worden war, arbeitete er zwischenzeitlich für den österreichischen Innenminister und auch für Wirecard.
Nach Unterlagen der Bundesregierung wandte sich Fritsche im August 2019 an das Kanzleramt und bat für Wirecard um einen Gesprächstermin mit Lars-Hendrik Röller, dem Wirtschaftsberater von Kanzlerin Angela Merkel.
Das Gespräch fand schließlich am 11. September statt. Neben Röller und Fritsche nahmen Alexander von Knoop, Finanzchef von Wirecard, und Burkhard Ley, Berater des Konzerns, teil. Es habe „in erster Linie dem gegenseitigen Kennenlernen“ gedient, heißt es in einer Chronologie des Kanzleramtes.
Zudem habe Wirecard „in allgemeiner Form über ihre Geschäftsaktivitäten in Fernost“ informiert. Linken-Politiker De Masi hält diese Darstellung für zweifelhaft, schließlich habe Merkel schon bei ihrer Chinareise Anfang September für Wirecards Asienexpansion geworben. Zuvor hatte Ex-Verteidigungsminister Karl-Theodor zu Guttenberg (CSU) im Kanzleramt für den Konzern lobbyiert.
Für De Masi sind das zu viele Zufälle, er hält eine Zusammenarbeit zwischen Wirecard und BND für wahrscheinlich: „Zu vermuten ist es, schließlich hat Ex-Geheimdienstkoordinator Fritsche für Wirecard lobbyiert und hatte gute Verbindungen zum österreichischen Geheimdienst. Es würde mich sehr überraschen, wenn Dienste in Wien, München und Berlin einen Geheimdienst-Fan wie Marsalek und die Finanzdaten von Wirecard nicht gerne genutzt hätten.“
War Marsalek Thema bei Maas' Russlandbesuch?
Mittlerweile hat das Kanzleramt Fritsches Tätigkeit geprüft. Das Bundesbeamtengesetz schreibt vor, dass Ruhestandsbeamte unter bestimmten Voraussetzungen ihre Tätigkeiten anzeigen, wenn sie mit ihrer früheren Arbeit in Zusammenhang stehen könnten.
„Eine durch das Bundeskanzleramt veranlasste Prüfung der Erfüllung dienstlicher Pflichten von Staatssekretär a. D. Fritsche bezüglich seiner Tätigkeit für die Wirecard AG ergab, dass die Tätigkeit keiner Anzeigepflicht unterlag“, sagte eine Sprecherin der Bundesregierung auf Anfrage.
Bemüht sich die Bundesregierung ausreichend um Aufklärung? Oppositionspolitiker hegen Zweifel. Unklar ist etwa, ob Bundesaußenminister Heiko Maas (SPD) bei seiner Russlandreise am 11. August das Thema Marsalek gegenüber seinem russischen Amtskollegen Sergej Lawrow angesprochen hat. Lawrow erklärte auf der anschließenden Pressekonferenz auf die Frage eines Journalisten: „Ich kenne Herrn Jan Marsalek nicht. Ich weiß kaum etwas über seine Aktivitäten, denn er ist kein Gegenstand von außenpolitischen Diskussionen.“
Das Auswärtige Amt will sich zum Inhalt der vertraulichen diplomatischen Gespräche grundsätzlich nicht äußern. Auf Handelsblatt-Anfrage erklärt es, keine Erkenntnisse über die Umsetzung des internationalen Haftbefehls („Red Notice“) gegen Marsalek durch Russland zu haben.
„Dass das Auswärtige Amt verschweigt, ob Maas in Russland den Fall angesprochen hat, kann ich überhaupt nicht nachvollziehen“, kritisiert De Masi. „Wenn Marsalek wirklich in Russland ist, muss die Bundesregierung das doch thematisieren.“ Der Linken-Finanzexperte kritisiert mangelndes Engagement. Zwar habe das Bundeskriminalamt Fahndungsplakate verteilt. „Aber wenn sich Herr Marsalek tatsächlich in Russland aufhalten sollte, müsste doch eher ein Auslieferungsantrag gestellt werden.“
https://www.handelsblatt.com/politik/deutschland/fluchthilfe-fuer-manager-marsalek-soll-auf-anwesen-bei-moskau-leben-die-rolle-der-geheimdienste-im-wirecard-skandal/26138222.html
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2020.08.29 17:26 anonymouslycrying I (23F) can’t trust my boyfriend (22M) of 4.5 years. What can I do to trust him?

My boyfriend and I have had some rough times in the last year (been together 4.5 years). Last November, he was on a dating app talking to other girls :/ someone messaged me..he lied to my face when I asked him about it :,( and we have been rocky ever since.
Well.. that’s not true. I was scared and insecure from previous relationships, so this exacerbated a huge problem we were already dealing with.
Fast forward to two weeks ago. I found a saved picture on his Instagram. (And before that, found him liking other girl’s pictures). I broke up with him for having the saved picture. He literally promised specifically not to save pictures (after an argument stemming from finding saved porno on his phone another time. He can watch porn, I just ask that he not save it. If he sees a picture he likes, fine, I just ask that he not save it). Sure enough, a picture of some girl is saved.
So I broke up with him. I just can’t deal with his lies. I can’t deal with the constant worry and stress, the constant dreams of him cheating, the constant obsessive thoughts of looking through his stuff, the guilt of looking through his stuff, the admission and the sadness he feels from not being trusted. I can’t deal with this shit anymore.
Well. He says the saved (and the liked) pictures were accidents. He accidentally must have saved them, sometimes that happens when he’s scrolling through Instagram. He says he’s tired of constantly being questioned and accused and wants to be with me but can’t deal with it anymore. He says I shouldn’t even care if he likes pictures—so what, he spends his time with me and only wants to be with me. He may be attracted to other people but he’s chosen to be with me. He says he’ll never hurt me like he did when he was on dating apps. That in the end, he deleted it and realized that he loves me too much to cheat (even though those were his intentions). He says he just wants me. And that he feels like I care more about him leaving than about him. And that he knows my mistrust is bc of what he did, but that I’m not seeing that he’s trying. And that I chose to forgive him and stay with him, so I’ve got to trust him if we’re going to make this work.
Right now we’re not dating but we’re not exactly broken up either. We’re taking it slow, trying to rebuild our relationship. I just can’t get over the fact that he refuses to delete the saved pic or unlike the other pics. He says he doesn’t care about those girls, that I’m the only one constantly talking about other people, so no. He’s not going to unlike or unsave bc he’s not even thinking about them. This really hurts me.. it makes me uncomfortable knowing he has other girl’s on his phone/accounts. It hurts that he doesn’t care if I’m uncomfortable. I understand that he may not care, but I do. Is that not enough reason? In this quest of rebuilding trust, I would want a partner that understands my fears/insecurities and would want to do whatever they can to help me along the way, to ease my worries. If he doesn’t care about them, then what’s the problem with deleting them?
Why can’t I move on? Why am I so obsessed with these pictures... I love him and want to be with him and just wish I didn’t care as much but I do. I don’t want to break his trust or violate his privacy by going through his stuff anymore but I’ll admit, my brain keeps telling me over and over to login and look again. It keeps telling me, he’s probably liked more pics since last time. He probably has shit on his phone, so when he comes over I should look. He probably saved it on purpose if he refuses to delete it. My thoughts are so obsessive. But talking to him is impossible bc every time I try to tell him how I feel, we get in an argument. ... I just don’t know what to do
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2020.08.29 08:17 TheRealPeteWheeler The White Sox are not a good baseball team.

Two weeks ago, the White Sox lost both games of a doubleheader against the Cardinals, dropping to a 10-11 record and fourth place in the AL Central. The post game thread was pretty despondent and negative, leading one commenter to go so far as to say, simply, "The White Sox are not a good baseball team."
Here are a few things of note that have happened since then.
-Thirteen days ago. Yoan, Yasmani, José, and Eloy hit back-to-back-to-back-to-back home runs, which has only happened ten times in major league history. (By the way, the White Sox have done it twice. Pretty cool. I even made a graph about it)
-We won that game 7-2.
-Twelve days ago. Tim Anderson hit a home run in the first Sox at-bat of the game. Then Yoan Moncada hit a home run in the second Sox at-bat of the game.
-Timmy and Luis Robert ended up hitting two home runs each.
-Also Gio Gonzalez struck out 10 batters in less than five innings. We won that game 7-2.
-Oh, also this happened.
-Eleven days ago, Tim Anderson hit a home run in the first Sox at-bat of the game. Again.
-We won 10-4.
-Ten days ago. Dane Dunning was brought up to pitch the first major league game of his career. He struck out seven Tigers in 4 and a third innings. After he left the game, the White Sox didn't give up another hit.
-Also, Edwin Encarnacíon hit two home runs and we won 5-3.
-Nine days ago. Lucas Giolito pitches an absolute gem, throwing seven innings with 13 strikeouts while allowing no runs and only two hits. It'll probably be his best game of the season, right? Yeah, probably.
-Oh, also, every one of our position players either scored a run or drove one in. We won 9-0.
-Eight days ago. Dallas Keuchel casually goes eight innings and allows one run against our crosstown rivals. Jose Abreu hits two bomb shots.
-More importantly, we hit a total of six dingers.
-Even more importantly, we rout them 10-1.
-Most importantly, Steve Stone implies that he starred in pornos in the '80s.
-Seven days ago. Jose Abreu decides that two home runs in a game is for suckers. He hits three home runs. We hit a total of five.
-11 home runs in two games ties the franchise record.
-Jose's five home runs in two games ties a franchise record.
-27 home runs in seven days is a MLB record.
-We hit dingers.
-Also, 5,922 days after being drafted by Chicago, Gio Gonzalez gets his first W as a White Sox. We win 7-4. We're on a seven game winning streak for the first time in half a decade.
-Six days ago. The Cubs have one of the best pitchers in all of baseball, being paid 22 million dollars this year. We have Dylan Cease, who the Cubs gave us for Jose Quintana. We lose a very winnable 2-1 after stranding five men on the basepaths in the last two innings. Can't win 'em all.
-Also, Jose is tired from hitting too many home runs, so he only hits one today.
-I am sad, so I go online and purchase a harmonica and the July 1983 issue of Playgirl. I smoke some weed. That's better.
-Five days ago. The White Sox have the day off, but the winning doesn't stop. Jose Abreu is named the AL POTW with a .533 average with seven home runs, 15 RBIs and a 1.896 OPS.
-The Indians lose against the Twins, moving us into second place in the division.
-ESPN moves us up one spot in their official power rankings, from 12 to 11. ESPN can slob on my knob.
-Four days ago. I receive my July 1983 Playgirl in the mail.
-I turn the game on TV as my girlfriend arrives at my apartment. We start having a serious talk as the top of the first inning ends. We break up as the bottom of the first ends. She's gone by the top of the second. I'm sad. I do not turn off the TV.
-The Sox score some runs, but nobody gets to see it, because the power ran out at the stadium. When it rains, it pours, huh?
-Oh, well. Shit happens. At least Lucas is throwing a good game.
-wait
-huh
-hold on a sec
-something... something might be happenin' here
-9:34 PM
Nine hours and 49 minutes after Steve Stone tweeted this about his co-commentator Jason Benetti
But nobody's counting
Jason: "And now, the only man to reach base tonight for the Pittsburgh Pirates, Erik Gonzales."
Steve: "Why don't you take this one, partner?"
Jason: "Like James and Lucas are a team, so are we."
...
9:35 PM
Lucas Giolito, the man with the worst ERA of any major league starter two years ago, completes the 19th no-hitter in White Sox history, the most for any franchise in the major leagues not named the Dodgers. He strikes out thirteen batters while throwing 101 pitches. He earns the highest ever game score for a pitcher in White Sox history. There are no fans in the park to see it, but it felt like we were all watching it together. It was a beautiful moment. I even teared up a little bit.
-More importantly, we got to see Tim box with Eloy in the middle of a no-hitter and the White Sox resigned Yolmer Sanchez. All is well.
-Three days ago. Same shit, different day. Hit four dingers. Scored ten runs. Gave up six hits. Won 10-3. 9-1 in our last ten. I'll be honest, I don't remember this one too well because I was so hungover from the night before. But it was a ton of fun.
-Two days ago. We don't get White Sox baseball, but we do get five minutes of Jomboy.
-Yesterday. I don't even know what to say about Yasmani Grandal. This happened and then this happened We walk off 6-5.
-We've won ten of our last eleven and now sit on top of the AL Central.
-Finally, we get this GIF of Tim Anderson dancing.
In the last two weeks, the White Sox have won ten out of eleven and moved from fourth to first in the division. They've scored 76 runs and given up 26. They've hit 35 home runs (setting a few records along the way) and we've also been treated to a no-hitter, a walk-off, a Jomboy breakdown, and Steve Stone on the cover of Playgirl magazine from four decades ago.
The White Sox are a good baseball team.
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2020.08.28 03:03 obnoxious117 My partner (24F) has been lying to me about her "Bestfriend"

I (25M) need some emotional guidance. I recently just found out that my partner has been lying to me since we've been together. We've been dating for about 7/8 months now but I started "chasing" her well over 3 years ago when we used to work together. She has a bestfriend (27M) who Ive always thought was a half alright bloke, since we've been dating I've had a weird feeling about him though. They have a pretty close connection but I have a couple female friends so I always shrugged it off. We were in bed last night looking through old photos and sharing some more of our pasts with each other when I noticed a bunch of photos she quickly zoomed past and then tried to distract me by showing me other ones. I asked her what it was but she shrugged it off and said it was nothing before locking her phone and proceeding to roll over to sleep, so I did the same. 3am this morning rolls around and I need to go to the toilet, so off I go and as I'm sitting there I noticed her phone on the sink. I'm probably a piece of shit for looking but I couldn't help myself. As soon as her phone unlocked it was already in the gallery right around where those photos were so i just had a look. Really wish I didn't because it was an albums worth of amateur porno between her and her "bestfriend" who she has assured me time and time again that they're just friends and they've never had a history. So many photos I wish I never fucking saw but now they're burnt into my brain. I'm not hurt by the fact that she's fucked another dude before me, What hurts me is that she lied to me about it. I've been completely honest with her about everything and I mean everything. This girl is the one girl I've told things I haven't told people before. But she couldn't even be honest enough with me to tell me that her and her "bestfriend" were fucking the whole time we worked together? The worst part for me is that I've spent time with them together. Watching them have there own little connection made me feel devoid of emotion, and now when I think back to those moments its even worse. So many little remarks I didn't know the meaning of but now I have a clue. I feel betrayed. She knows for a fact that if I knew they had a history I wouldn't want him aroynd and would want nothing to do with him. Im a firm believer in the past stays in the past. Every former lover of mine is more than 1000kms away from me and I havent contacted them in years. Can anyone tell me if I'm allowed to be feeling like this or is all this my own fault? Please help me, and be as honest as you can. I'm a big boy.
TL;DR I discovered my gfs best friend is actually her last partner through an album of Porno they had together and has lied to my face about it since the beginning.
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2020.08.22 01:12 torch_7 People who cry because a bitter ex shared their nudes only have themselves to blame

If you don't want photos of your body out in the web or even rumors of among your loved ones, you shouldn't make em in the first place. No matter how thirsty you SO might be, they can wait till you get home to see you or find a quiet place to rub it to a porno. No matter how horny you feel for your partner, have some self-respect and avoid doing something as stupid as sharing a picture of your boobs/vagina/penis. Relationship CAN go south, and some like a plane hit by a missile, so it's for the best if you cover all your bases, especially when it comes to your body, so don't bullied, don't be swayed and don't be thirsty, keep the image of how your body looks to yourself.
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2020.08.19 00:20 Shanetruth If your partner was performing in pornos behind your back what would you do to get to the truth?

She says it's not her but when you can prove it with out a doubt and she say do anything it takes to get to the truth would you do anything even crap that is so beneath you to get to that truth?
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